Time in Unconscious Life
Within us time does not exist. In the inner mental life we can always exist at different ages, and the more immature one is, the more “time” one spends behaving and thinking based on the conflicts of infancy, toddlerhood, and childhood.
Time In Unconscious Life – Time In Psychotherapy
When one enters psychotherapy, this internal time begins to be felt. The clients transfer the feelings of childhood life in the context of the therapy and specifically to the person of the therapist. This transference of feelings really takes place in a lively way during the therapeutic hours. The patient does not understand this. But little by little, with the repetition of the sessions and the childhood experiences he conveys, he begins to understand the children’s needs which determine the way he relates and behaves.
Time in Unconscious Life
Time in Unconscious Life
The more one holds on to time, the more one is afraid of returning to childhood. This means that he has unresolved conflicts that constantly raise issues to be resolved. So there the stress is great and the solution far away. Usually these people need a big shock in order to seek help but this delay is not recommended. I strongly recommend seeking help when you feel like you don’t understand what’s going on inside of you. We all try to explain things but this understanding is often a very difficult task. The past rules us without us realizing it, and this means that there are things hidden within us that we do not know. This is also the paradox with time. In today we believe that our anxiety is born from today’s things but there we are completely far from our real life.
Time in Unconscious Life
What worries us today and we don’t understand it is called neurotic anxiety. It is anxiety that is tangled in time. It comes from childhood traumas, fears and inhibitions that we don’t understand. A present-day shame or guilt is nothing but the products of hidden feelings that often hide sexual desires and/or murder. Did we know this before we discovered it? No. But when we’ve seen it happen all the time and people get rid of symptoms, then we’ve helped, we’ve been useful. For man, it is not easy to look at his face. It is the other who will show him his face. We need each other. Not because we love each other. Simply because we need us. Love is something else that we will see in another article and is related to something that is not always self-evident. With what; With gratitude.
The process of psychotherapy requires commitment, dedication and is addressed only to those who seriously see that they need to change their lives. If you are thinking of starting this journey, please call me at 211 71 51 801 to make an appointment and let’s see together how I can help you.
Mixalis Paterakis
Psychologist Psychotherapist
University of Indianapolis University of Middlesex
Karneadou 37, Kolonaki (next to Evangelismos)
I accept by appointment
Tel: 211 7151 801
www.psychotherapy.net.gr
www.mixalispaterakis.gr
Time in Unconscious Life
Ψυχολογος Ψυχοθεραπευτης
“θεραπεία σημαίνει η προσπάθεια να καταλάβει κανείς τον εαυτό του. Να τον κατανοήσει. Να μάθει γιατί μισεί, γιατί έχει χαμηλή αυτοεκτίμηση, γιατί δεν μπορεί να αγαπήσει, με λίγα λόγια να δει από που προέρχονται όλα αυτά…”
Για οτιδήποτε ψυχολογικό σας απασχολεί, μην διστάσετε να επικοινωνήσετε. Υπάρχει λύση σε κάθε πρόβλημα απλώς χρειάζεται να δούμε λίγο εσάς.
Psychologist Psychotherapist
“healing means trying to understand oneself. To understand him. To find out why he hates, why he has low self-esteem, why he can’t love, in short to see where all this comes from…”
For anything psychological that concerns you, do not hesitate to contact. There is a solution to every problem we just need to see a little of you.